When we hear the word "nagging," we can all probably think of at least one couple that seems to define the practice. Hopefully, the relationship you are picturing is not your own. But if it is, beware: nagging can be more than just an annoyance.

Relationship experts say that it can sometimes erode a relationship and lead to divorce. In light of this, Georgia couples may wish to examine the role that nagging plays in their own marriages and consider how they can change this toxic behavior into healthy communication.

So what exactly is nagging, and why do we do it? One psychologist says that as naggers, "We have a perception that we won't get what we want from the other person, so we feel we need to keep asking in order to get it." Unfortunately, this usually leads the other person to become obstinate and either ignore the requests or appear as though they are not listening.

The end result is frustration and hurt feelings on both sides.

A professor of psychology who has studied relationship communication says that nagging can lead to divorce when and if it becomes the focus of arguments. That is, couples begin to argue about the nagging itself rather than addressing the deeper issues causing it.

We will all likely deal with nagging at some point in our relationships. But the good news is that it does not have to become toxic. Check back later this week as we continue our discussion. We will share several tips from relationship experts on how to interrupt the vicious cycle of nagging.

Source: Wall Street Journal, "Meet the Marriage Killer," Jan. 25, 2012